but today i feel insecure and vulnerable.
it's weird for me, since so often i'm the queen of cocky, but i can't seem to help it today.
did i mindlessly rush into something?
do i know him as well as i should?
am i being foolish to believe this is going to work?
i had a conversation with daniel earlier this week, and i think a lot of my concerns are triggered from some of the things he said - and i thought they would just go away completely when mike got back and things settled, and yet i still feel vulnerable.
when i dated daniel, i knew he was never going to really leave me. i don't know why i knew that, i just did, i knew i would be the one to end things. it made the relationship seem so safe and secure, and i think that is large part of why i kept asking for him back.
i don't want my relationship with mike to be like my relationship with daniel was. i want it to work, but it's hard. it's hard to commit as whole-heartedly as i want when i'm so afraid of being hurt.
i know i'm being silly and overemotional. mike seems committed to this. he knows what he signed up for. he's just not one of those people who always expresses how he feels.
i need to write that out on the chalkboard like lines in elementary school.
in other news, i bought the "Snuggie Sutra" at Urban Outfitters this weekend.
as i told my brother - "just because i'm not having sex doesn't mean when i do, it shouldn't include my snuggies."
- ella faye